Adopting family members
If you want to adopt your stepchild we can offer you advice and support.
Adopting a stepchild
If you want to adopt your stepchild so that you become their legal parent and share parental responsibility with your spouse/partner you can apply for stepparent adoption. The child must be under 18 at the time of the application to the court.
To adopt your stepchild you must:
- be over 21
- be married to, or living with (for at least two years), the birth parent
- have lived in this country for at least a year
- have been living with your stepchild for at least six months
- inform the child's other birth parent of your plans
To start the process, you must tell us in writing that you want to adopt with the following details:
- Full names and dates of birth of everyone in your household
- Your address, email address and telephone number
- How long you have been in a relationship with the child's parent and that you live in the same house with the child you want to adopt
- Whether there are any other children who live elsewhere
- If yes, please provide their details and where they live/who they live with
- Whether you have the contact details for the other parent, and whether they have parental responsibility
- Whether the child is aware they have another parent / family living elsewhere
- Why you want to adopt
You and your partner must both sign the letter, scan or take a photograph of it and email it to firstname.lastname@example.org
Find out more about the assessment process at Adopting your stepchild - the process.
Adopting another member of your family
If you want to adopt another member of your family, different rules apply. For instance, they must have lived with you for at least three years unless you are their foster carer. You must live in County Durham and you will need consent from the child's birth parent/s. There are other legal orders that you could apply for that do not change the child's identity like adoption does. If you are related to the child, you should consider applying for a Special Guardianship Order rather than adoption.
You may want to take legal advice from a solicitor who specialises in family law before making enquiries with us. However, you could contact us if you do want advice.
- 03000 269 291